The meaning of loyalty

The real story is great for all of us an example that I can think of next millis (the story never aired on the Metro). Hopefully we can take lessons.
It's a real story, he was Bp. Eko Pratomo Suyatno, Director of Fortis Asset Management which was very popular among the Capital Markets and Investment, he was also very successful within the industry to promote mutual funds in Indonesia. What he stated is very true. Please read and internalized.
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Judging from his age, he was no longer young, who have been age was nearing dusk and even night, Mr. Suyatno 58 years of daily life is filled with caring for his sick wife to marry his wife also had tua.Mereka over 32 years already. They were blessed with 4 children.
Here is the temptation strikes, after his wife gave birth to her fourth child suddenly his legs paralyzed and unable to move. It happened for 2 years. Treading in the third, his whole body became weak and even feels no bones, lidahnyapun can no longer move.
Every day pack Suyatno bathing, cleaning up, feeding, and lifted her onto the bed. Before leaving for work, he put his wife in front of the TV so she did not feel lonely. Although she can not talk but she always saw her smiling.
Fortunately, the place of business Suyatno pack is not so far from home, so during the day he came home to feed her lunch. In the afternoon he went home to bathe her, change her clothes and after the maghrib time he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling apa2 only is he a natural day. Although she could only see but can not respond, Mr. Suyatno was quite happy, even he was always teasing his wife each goes to sleep.
These routines are performed more or less Pak Suyatno 25 years, with the patient he treated his wife even as he raised to 4 pieces of their hearts, they are grown up now anak2, live the youngest who was in college.
One day, the four children Suyatno their parents gathered at home while visiting his mother. Because after their children got married, had lived with their families and their mother decided Pak Suyatno he cared, he wanted only one of all children succeed.
With that sentence carefully enough eldest son who said "Sir we would love to take care of the mother, since we were kids to see the father take care of the mother, not an iota of complaint out of the lips of the father, the father does not even let us keep the mother".
With tears in his eyes that the child continues the words: "is the fourth time we allow the father to marry again, we think ibupun will allow it, when you enjoy the old father, with a sacrifice like this we can not bear to see the father. We promise we'll take care of the mother the best of alternately ".
Mr. Suyatno said the same thing was not thought to his children: "My children ... If marriage and life in this world only to lust, maybe you will get married .. but please know you are right next to the mother is already more than enough, she gave birth to you. For a moment his throat choked up, I missed you guys who are always present in this world with love which no one can be rewarded with anything. "
"Will you ask your mother if she wanted a situation like this? You want a happy father, whether spiritual father left your mother can be happy with keadaanya now, you want a father who was given God the health care of others? What about your mother who is still sick. "
For a moment, burst into tears of children Suyatno pack. And they see little beads of eyes fell dipelupuk Suyatno mother. With melancholy eyes staring at her husband who really loved it.
Pak finally came Suyatno invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person and they ask questions to Suyatno, why can survive for 25 years caring for his wife who was not capable of anything.
That's when he burst out crying with guests in attendance at the studio, most of the daughters could not resist touching. That is where Mr. Suyatno told .. "If people in this world glorifies a love in her marriage, but do not want to give (to give time, energy, thought, attention) that is vanity."
"I chose my wife became my life companion, and when he is healthy he too patiently cared for me, love me with heart and his heart was not with the eyes, and he gave me 4 children funny-funny. Now he is sick because of sacrifices for the love we shared. And it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love what they are. I Sehatpun not necessarily looking for a replacement let alone he's sick ... "